Creating My Kids in My Own Image

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One thing that has always gotten me overbooked and overwhelmed was trying to create my children in "my own image".  No, I'm not talking about mini-mes.  I'm talking about the image in my mind.  A mix of kids that looked like Gap Kids models, played sports like baby Olympic athletes, and were as scholarly as miniature Albert Einsteins (without the frizzy hair). Then God reminded me I didn't need to envision who my kids should be.  He'd already taken care of that.  My kids weren't empty vessels after all.  God created them in unique ways.  Ephesians 2:10 talks about this, "For we are God's workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do" (NIV).

Just as God created me to do good works (in my family, my home, my community, my world), He did the same for my kids.  Boldness came when I studied my kids and figured out what made them tick.  While it wasn't possible to look at my three-year-old son and know what he was going to be when he grew up, I discovered he liked listening to stories and building Lego creations.  At age six I discovered t-ball was not his thing.  In 8th grade I discovered basketball was.

It was hard though, focusing on my child INSTEAD of focusing on the image in my head.  From the first moment I saw Cory my mind was filled with big dreams for him.  My Mommy Sensibility involved laying aside my dreams and discovering God's.

"When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts.  A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child", says actress Sophia Loren.  The cool thing is God thought of my kids first.

Tricia Goyer

Tricia Goyer is a busy mom of ten, grandmother of two, and wife to John. Somewhere around the hustle and bustle of family life, she manages to find the time to write fictional tales delighting and entertaining readers and non-fiction titles offering encouragement and hope. A bestselling author, Tricia has published fifty books to date and has written more than 500 articles. She is a two-time Carol Award winner, as well as a Christy and ECPA Award Nominee. To connect with Tricia go to TriciaGoyer.com or www.Facebook.com/AuthorTriciaGoyer.