Remembering Your Weight Is Not Your Worth

Bathroom scale isolate over white square background

As mom to 7, I’m often asked if they are “all mine.” After I briefly explain our beautifully-blended family, then I’m usually asked a second question. “So you had six of them?”  The saucy side of me wants to reply “No, they hatched.” But thankfully, the Spirit restrains me and I answer with “Yes, all 6.” And then a conversation follows with something like “How in the world do you stay thin?”  I am not telling you this typical conversation for any reason other than a woman’s weight is a very tricky conversation topic. I’m half embarrassed that it draws a frequent conversation. Now mind you, I really want to be healthy, just like you. And I definitely want to be attractive to my husband, just like you.

But just like any other woman on the planet, my physical weight has fluctuated. In fact, my personal weight has varied as much as 60 lbs. over the course of bearing my 6 biological children.  I’m guessing that many of you can relate to wishing that after baby weight didn’t stay indefinitely or at least dropped off faster.  Maybe it’s been years and you are still struggling with weight gain. Maybe your weight gradually crept up and you are currently in a stage of moving forward to a healthier weight.  Maybe you struggle with a thin unhealthy weight. Wherever you are on the scale, today I wanted to focus on remembering that your weight is not your worth.

  1. Your weight is not your worth because you were bought with a price.

“for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” I Cor. 6:20

  1. Your weight is not your worth because God’s work in you provides your purpose.

“The LORD will fulfill his purpose for me; your steadfast love, O LORD, endures forever. Do not forsake the work of your hands.” Psalm 138:8

  1. Your weight is not your worth because you are God’s child.

“The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God,and if children, then heirs–heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.” Rom. 8:16&17

  1. Your weight is not your worth because you have no need to live under condemnation.

“There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Rom. 8:1

  1. Your weight is not your worth because your worth is to be found in glorifying God.

Glorifying God means doing our best to have a healthy temple, but not allowing the battle of keeping a healthy temple define our worth.

“Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.” I Corinthians 6:19&20

No matter your number on the scale, your worth as a Christian is found in Christ. His Word. His love. His peace. His joy. His gifts to us.

Have you ever allowed your weight to define your worth? Is it a day to day struggle? How do you combat this battle?

Rachel at

The Ultimate Christian Living eBook Bundle {limited time & quantity!!}

{{{Friends! I am so so so excited to share this HUGE bundle of fabulous resources with you!  Because there are a lot of details below, I will spare you a long discourse of my own. Just know that I love sharing Ultimate Bundles with you because of the rich content that I pray will encourage you in your walk with God and your family. So… happy reading…and don’t forget to enter the giveaway at the end (once you purchase your bundle!).}}}

Who among us doesn’t want to lead a life worth emulating?

With great kids, a loving marriage, a successful career or business and a closer, faith-filled walk with the Lord. But for many of us, making that a reality is big challenge!

Balancing life’s priorities can seem a bit overwhelming at times. The pressures of work, the need for finances, the demands of parenting and the resulting strain on marriage can leave us weathered, weary and wondering what really works in life?

That’s where the Ultimate Christian Living Bundle comes in. called in some best selling authors, leading experts and top business professionals to address the most common challenges faced by families and individuals today – all from a solid, Biblical foundation.

For the ridiculously low price of just $34.95 (for the PDF version) or $39.97 (for the eReader version), you can get access to a carefully curated collection of eBooks and eCourses with a total combined value of over $1,140 that addresses these issues with stunning clarity and practical application.

For the family…

The bundle contains 10 wonderful books focused on incredibly inventive ways you can craft the marriage you signed on for. To complement that subject, they added 8 more books focused on parenting and passing on your faith to your kids. That wouldn’t be complete without books just for kids so they also included 8 children’s books that parents can read with their children. To close out the content for family life, the highly praised Singing Bible MP3 version was added (a $25 value all by itself). It actually teaches children the story of the Bible not just random stories.

For your professional life…

You will find John Muratori and Michael Pink’s six -hour Christian Wealth Building course ($77 value) which was complemented with Bob Lotich’s 31-day devotional Managing Money God’s Way. There are a total of 14 business related books and courses including Zig Ziglar’s powerful Born To Win course (that Seth Godin and Dave Ramsey rave about), Dr. James B. Richards, Wired For Success – Programmed For Failure and Untold Secrets for Creating Wealth by Brig Hart and John Beehner. You’ll even find one of the best selling Christian business books of all time, The Bible Incorporated – In Your Life, Job & Business.

To ignite your faith…

Rounding out the package, Bridge Logos and Moody Press made a series of classic Christian literature available from generals of the faith like Charles Spurgeon, D.L. Moody, A.W. Pink, E.M. Bounds, Calvin, Wesley, Edwards and more who wrote about grace, prayer, faith and an overcoming life.

In addition to these wonderful classics, the Ultimate Bundles team snagged 12 heart-stirring devotionals from authors like A.W. Tozer and Nancy Leigh DeMoss that speak to matters of faith that are sure to inspire. Let’s not forget Gary Chapman’s Extraordinary Grace or Ray Comfort’s Way of the Master for sharing your faith with others. Both heartbreaking and inspiring, don’t miss Philip Cameron’s, They Call Me Dad, the story of one man’s fight to save orphans from human trafficking.

So as you can see, the Ultimate Christian Living Bundle is an extraordinary value.

But it still gets better…

The Ultimate Bundles team asked several sponsors to step up to the plate and with no strings attached, provide meaningful BONUS GIFTS. One of the first to step up was Dayspring Greeting Cards who offered a choice of heart-warming gift card packages to choose from.  Another, is a downloadable DVD workout series for getting in shape and maintaining health. With a retail value of $62.99 it includes a Biblical study guide for stewarding your health. Bonus gifts alone have a total retail value of over $160

So now you know…

For as little as $34.95 you can receive over $1,140 worth of valuable eBooks and eCourses that address the issues of life most of us face at one time or another, from a profoundly Biblical worldview. The BONUS GIFTS alone are worth more than four times the price of the bundle! So, if you want to ignite your faith, strengthen your family and help your professional life, there’s no better place to start! All the hard work has been done for you…

The Ultimate Christian Living Bundle will only be on sale for 6 days – from 8am (EST) on Wednesday, November 5th until 11:59pm (EST) on Monday, November 10th.

But don’t wait until the last moment – there are only 18,500 bundles available and once they’re gone, they’re gone!

You can buy with confidence because your purchase is covered by the Ultimate Bundles 30-day guarantee: you have a full month to enjoy all the books and courses in the bundle, and if you don’t feel like it’s made a huge difference to your family’s life, you’ll get your money back in full!

Here’s what you need to know about the sale:

When? 8 a.m. (EST) Wednesday, November 5th until 11:59 p.m. (EST) Monday, November 10th (or until 18,500 bundles are sold).

What? 75 eBooks plus eCourses and more, PLUS over $160 worth of bonus products you’ll really use!

Where? Purchase the bundle HERE.

How much? Well now, that’s the best part. The entire package is worth over $1,140, and it’s yours for as little as $34.95. Sweet deal, right?

When you’re ready, you can either buy here directly, or right through the website. It’s fast and easy, and you’ll have your bundle sent to you via email within minutes.

Click here for more info or to buy now.

Remember, this bundle is available for 6 days only, from 8 a.m. (EST) on Wednesday, November 5th to 11:59 p.m. (EST) on Monday, November 10th (or until 18,500 bundles are sold).

Want to know exactly what’s included in the bundle?

Take a look through the categories, as well as the full list of included resources.

Business & Personal Finance

Christian Classics Series

Christian Living

Devotional Life

For Children

Inspirational Novels

Married Life


Reaching the Lost

Click here for more info or to buy now.

Remember, this bundle is available for 6 days only, from 8 a.m. (EST) on Wednesday, November 5th to 11:59 p.m. (EST) on Monday, November 10th (or until 18,500 bundles are sold).

Disclosure: I have included affiliate links in this post. Read the fine print about this bundle and read the answers to frequently asked questions about the bundle.

And one more thing (phew)…….

I have a fun surprise!

I have this lovely bundle of goodies to give away to one of you!!! This bundle includes some of my very favorite things, most of what can be used while you are relaxing and reading your eBook bundle!!

How to enter:

1. Purchase The Ultimate Christian Living Bundle by clicking HERE through The Better Mom site.

2. Copy and share the following with your friends on Facebook—>>> Have you seen The Ultimate Christian Living Bundle?!?! Over $1000 worth of Christian Living eBooks, eCourses + music for only $34.95 for only 6 days!!

ONE winner will be announced next Friday November 14th, 2014!!

{Set of 3 Tea Towels from Anthropologie, Love Came Down Lantern from Dayspring, Set of 2 Owl Mugs from Anthropologie, Walk by Faith Notes from Dayspring, Matching Redeemed necklace and bracelet from Dayspring, Set of 3 Notebooks from Anthropologie}

The Ultimate Christian Bundle Giveaway

Happy reading my friends!!!


Ruth Schwenk


How Your Smartphone Can Become a FITphone!

For those of you who have a smartphone, it’s time to make it your FITphone! Here are some great ways that it can be used to keep you on track!

How your SMARTphone can become your FITphone! :

Here are 5 ways that I do this!
1.) Accountability

I do this in multiple ways. (And if you are wondering if I really use accountability in my journey, YES I DO!)

- Text Messages: Easy way to check-in through the day!

- Voxer (an app you can download): This is my current favorite! It’s like a walkie talkie, but better!

- Phone calls (remember the old school way? ha)

2.) Food Journaling

There are times when I need to lean up a little bit or get myself back on track. The food journaling apps on smartphones are excellent! Try MyFitnessPal or Lose It!

3.) Focus

Many times I’ll put a motivational statement or bible verse on my lock screen so that it keeps me focused on my goal. I have to change it often because it’s easy to get used to seeing it, thus you look past it, but it is an awesome tool.

4.) Music and Podcasts

I use music when I am running or at the gym, and I use podcasts when I’m doing pilates type exercises and FOOD PREPPING for the week! Keeps my mind busy while my hands work! Not sure who to listen to? Ask your friends, or put your hot topic items in the “search” menu on your podcast app! (i.e.: family, marriage, christian, leadership, marketing)

5.) Apps

Pinterest helps me when I need a recipe while at the grocer, Nike Training Club is great for a quick workout, Tabata Timer works great at the gym when I want to do a speed workout, and instagram to get food and exercise inspiration! (And to share what you are doing, too!)

So if you have a smartphone, why not make it your FIT phone?! Do you have anything you would add to this list?!

Press on!


blending beauty with grace | #thebeautybalance

I’ve been diving right into this 31 Day Writing Challenge, where each blogger chooses a topic to write about for 31(ish) days. Because it’s right where God has me, I’ve chosen to share on Blending Beauty with Balance.
(#thebeautybalance, if you want to follow along…or better yet, join the conversation using the hashtag!)

It’ll be a fun and encouraging 31(ish) days where I’ll be sharing tips and tricks while digging deeper, finding purpose, and blending beauty with balance — all with a heart of intention. {all 31(ish) Days will be linked here}

 a Mama and her little daughter lie on the grass

I tend to ponder so often about the message I’m putting out there on my blog and YouTube channel with all this beauty, makeup and fashion talk. And I confess that I have truly been in the trenches over this deep longing to know just how to live and share a life of beauty with balance.

And while it’s true that beauty, style, and fashion can make life a little more fun (I mean, can we just talk about the giddy joy in finding a fabulous shade of lipstick?) …what brings an even greater joy to my soul, is living that beauty, and knowing that the beauty we delight in is truly a reflection of our Creator.

But, I didn’t always see it this way, and I haven’t always had this sort of outlook when it comes to beauty.

I still remember the day I found out I was having a daughter, that day when I heard those four little words that brought tears to my eyes and a panicking fear to my heart, “You’re having a girl.”

And as we walked back to the car from our appointment, I grasped my husbands hand and whispered to him my greatest fear… “How will I keep her from becoming like me?”

For so many years up until that day, I had been struggling — drowning might actually be more like it — in placing my value and worth on what I looked like on the outside. And every time I looked into the mirror, I saw someone not good enough. Not beautiful enough. Not thin enough. And ultimately, not worthy enough.

These lies I believed to be truths caused me to turn down social invitations and withdraw from friendships where I just didn’t feel enough, or felt too embarrassed of the package I had to present. Instead it seemed better to be home where the only judgement I had to endure, was my own.

But on that day in that doctors appointment, when God knew what I needed better than I did, I realized that I had no choice but to finally choose the path to healing. And I had to get uncomfortable, even more than I already was, in order to really yank out the roots from the weeds of lies I’d allowed to take over my mind.

And on the day when Chloe was born, while I still had so far to go, I found myself finally in place where beauty no longer defined who I was or what I was worth.

It’s a journey, and I am imperfect, and I still have many moments of struggle.
But, the only difference is, I refuse to stay in that place.

And it’s those precious moments when I watch my sweet little girl sitting at my vanity, playing with my makeup, that I realize more than ever, that as women, mamas, and mentors, we have such a great responsibility to teach these little ones the truth about beauty.

And when I hear her ask me if I think she’s beautiful, I want nothing more than for her to know that her beauty is so much more than what she will ever see in the mirror. That true beauty is being adorned from the inside out, making every effort to blend beauty with grace, ultimately reflecting Him in all that we are and in everything we do.

And it’s when we ourselves believe and live that truth with devoted intention, that those little eyes and hearts watching us, will long for and understand the beauty God intended for us all to be and to live in all that we are and in everything we do.

For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.
Ephesians 2:10

We are His poem and His masterpiece.
I pray with all my heart that we live this, and more importantly, that we pass it on.



Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...