Creative Multi-Tasking By Including Your Children

Creative Multi-tasking By Including Your Littles

Mothers are multi-taskers. We are known for talking on the phone, while changing a diaper, keeping an eye on the oven, while re-attaching the leg of a minifig casualty of war. With five little boys running around, I’ve become proficient at multi-tasking. And yet, sometimes I’m the multi-tasking mom that wants to be a one-woman-show. I forget that I don’t need to do it all myself.

The reminder all of us busy moms need sometimes is this: Creatively employing our kids is the ultimate in multi-tasking.

Training our kids to help, at any age, accomplishes all this and more:

1) Builds their skills in cleaning, organizing and other help around the house

2) In time, takes tasks off of your plate

3) Teaches kids cooperation with siblings

4) Reinforces the principle and heart behind servanthood

5) Keeps little ones (and their hands) busy

6) Provides built-in family time…that can be fun!

Is this new to you? If you tend to think that cleaning should be done when your kids are asleep or that organizing is best accomplished when the kids are at school, perhaps creatively employing your children in tasks around the house feels more like a hinderance than a benefit. However, in my own experience, making time for inefficiency sometimes becomes the most special ways I’ve learned to enjoy my kids and get things done…at the same time.

Here are some practical ways I’ve been including my kids in my multi-tasking:

1) Keep kids cups and place within reach, and have little ones unload their own dishes from he dishwasher

2) Hand a little one a swiffer mop with a wet or dust pad on it. (Maybe they won’t get the floor clean, but this entertaining task will inevitably result in some clean areas!)

3) Older siblings are great at helping with putting on shoes, and taking littles to the bathroom.

4) Teach kids to do their own laundry by partnering up with an older sibling.

5) Give the job of setting the table to a little one.

6) Plan ahead to involve your children with different areas of dinner prep that can be done in advance. Do you need potatoes scrubbed? Have a little one do that early in the day when an activity is needed. Do you need carrots peeled? Give that task to an older child when he’s ready for a job.

7) Tedious jobs like dusting blinds can surprisingly delight a little one who needs a measurable task to accomplish.

8) My kids are great paper-shredders! Just make sure the pile you give them to cut and shred are thoroughly examined as trash! They won’t think it’s work at all! :)

What about you? What ways do you creatively employ your children? How do you keep them busy and teach them to help out around the house?

Blessings,

Ruth Simons, www.gracelaced.com

 

 

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  • KristenCelebrateEveryDayWithMe

    Ruth, I love this! Ever since I heard Crystal (Money Saving Mom) say that one of her goals is to work herself our of a job, I have been more deliberate about it. It definitely can be hard when you want something done quickly. You are so right about making time for inefficiency. It will pay off in the end. Thanks for the encouragement!

    • gracelaced

      Thanks, Kristen! That’s a great quote from Crystal. I hadn’t heard that, but it is so true!

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  • tg

    My 6 yr old has 3 sets of “to-do’s”: taking care of self, serving others in love, and working hard/earning big. The care for self and others is to be done freely with a servant’s heart (though in reality there can be big attitude) and include being responsible for putting away his laundry, folding our napkins, setting the table, keeping his room clean, pack his school lunch, etc. His responsibilities for which he can earn money and learn about money management and tithing include cleaning his bathroom (with a safe, homemade cleaner!), taking out the trash, etc. It doesn;t work perfectly, but we are headed in a good direction.

    • gracelaced

      I’d really like to get more intentional about training the kids with earned money. Like you said, I’m sure we never “arrive” at the perfect method, but thankfully, the Lord leads us one step at a time.

  • http://thechuppies.com/ Kara @ The Chuppies

    How did I miss this one dear friend?
    :)

    I think a key point is what you wrote about “making time for inefficiency” because when my goal is efficiency and I have expectations of things getting done quickly…that’s when I really struggle with the teaching and training of little ones.

    One of the BEST help-myself-decisions I made in this area was moving all of our dishes and cups to lower cabinets in the kitchen so that our little guys could reach them easily and unload the dishwasher. Also the whole laundry-bin-plan…

    I like to give Lydi wipes and let her wipe down the baseboards in the house….

    • gracelaced

      I so agree with you that there are practical helps–and we have our kids dishes lowered as well too–but that our expectations are perhaps the most important factor in training our children!

  • http://www.facebook.com/desire.coopermiller Desiré Cooper Miller

    Love this! In my head I want my boys (2 and 4) to begin helping out with responsibilities around the house and I often give them small tasks here and there, BUT I don’t often “make time for inefficiency” so they’re frustrated because I’m rushing them and I’m frustrated because it’s not done quickly or “right” and I decide it’s just easier if I do it. Lol. Thanks for the encouragement to expect imperfection and delays and to keep at it!

  • dtoplov

    Love this post! Why just this morning I gave both my older kids (5 and 3) a damp rag and asked them to wipe down all the baseboards. I reminded them that if they helped out with a cheerful spirit, we would celebrate afterwards with tea and cookies! What I think of as super tedious, was quite fun for them. Sure, I did have to pause often to rinse out their rags and encourage them to do a few places twice, but in the end, I not only have clean floors, but clean baseboards! :)