Quiet Times for Crazy Days

bible-coffee-aAs a little girl, I remember peering through my mom and dad’s slightly ajar bedroom door and seeing my mom kneeling beside her bed praying, with her Bible open. This was a scene I observed many mornings after and even when I didn’t glance in to see her, I knew she was there spending time with her Savior. This had a profound impact on me. My mom, who is now 87 years old and widowed, still faithfully spends time in the Word and prayer every day. After all these years, I still am comforted by this.

Fast forward more than a few years…

Feeling a bit overwhelmed in life with two little girls under the age of two and the demands of being a pastor’s wife, I desperately wanted some sanity and perspective in my life. Though I’d become a believer many years earlier, my quiet times had become sporadic at best. I knew I wasn’t living in obedience to Christ by taking such a careless attitude in this area of my life. My children needed to know as they grew that I valued my relationship with Christ above all else. I wanted them to have that security I’d felt knowing my mom was spending time with the Lord daily. More than this, I needed this time with my Savior. The answer was to make spending time in the Word a priority. So I did. I started getting up at 6:30 every morning to a hot cup of coffee, with my Bible and a notebook in hand.

There were days when one or more of my children (as our family grew in number) would wake up earlier than normal and “mess up my schedule”, but it didn’t happen often and as they got older, they knew they were expected to be quiet until I had finished. As I began to make my spiritual life a priority, our children realized that my husband and I were not just spewing Christian phrases, but we were living what we were teaching them. God was not just an impersonal entity in the cosmos, He was (and is) personal, real and involved in our lives.

Am I suggesting every day will be trouble-free as you enter into a regular time with God? Absolutely not. But you will grow in your knowledge of God which will, in turn, strengthen your faith and deepen your love for Him. Your life will be enriched in ways you could never have imagined as you make meeting with Him a priority each day.

If you want your children to have a relationship with Jesus, you must model it for them. Our words have a much more powerful influence on our kids when accompanied by actions. So I would encourage you to make this appointment with God your highest priority each day. It is a decision you will not regret.

Blessings as you walk in faithfulness,

Barb

 

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About Barb Spencer

Barb loves Christ and His Word deeply and is married to Michael, her best friend for over 28 years. A pastor’s daughter and a pastor’s wife, Barb is a mom to 5 children; Aubrie Drayer, Marisa, Summer, Ian and Katerine (who they adopted from Guatemala in 2008). She also loves her role as grandma. Barb’s highest calling is her family. She has no regrets about being a stay-at-home mom and has homeschooled their children from the beginning. Though Barb has encountered many challenges, including her husband’s stage 4 battle with cancer in 2001 and raising a daughter who has cerebral palsy and is mentally handicapped, she has repeatedly found God’s grace sufficient. Barb is passionate about being a wife and mother, and helping younger moms.

  • Elizabeth Ann

    Such words of wisdom! Love this!

    • Barb Spencer

      Thank you, Elizabeth!

  • http://www.facebook.com/barbarabroxson Barbara Thatcher-Broxson

    Thank you so much for sharing!

    • Barb Spencer

      I’m happy to have shared this with you!

  • Trisha Goddard

    Thank you for sharing this, and I totally agree – no matter what make HIM #1 priority each day before anything else! It changes everything and as you go about your day and feel overwhelmed, stop and go get “refilled” in His Word, with a short devotional (I love Jesus Calling by Sarah Young), a good Christian growth book (I love Elizabeth George), or read a great blog post like this one from Christian woman who are there to encourage you!

    Keep in His Word and may our lives be testimonies to our children of our LOVE for HIM!

    Chosen by Him,
    Trisha, mom of 3
    http://www.unamujerelegida.wordpress.com

    • Barb Spencer

      Trisha…I can’t agree more with what you are saying. Jesus is truly the Bread of Life and we know when our lives do not receive the nourishment they so need! Blessings, Barb

  • The Wannabe Mummy

    God bless you for this reminder.

    • Barb Spencer

      Thank you. We all need it, don’t we? Blessings, Barb

  • Rachel Hyden

    Because my quiet often accompanies a cup of coffee too….I am convinced Jesus loves coffee :)

    • Barb Spencer

      I’m pretty sure that’s a safe assumption! :) ~Barb

  • Amber

    This is exactly me!
    I watched my mom read her bible and pray for us every morning of my life. She was always in her chair interceding for us. She had a “prayer basket” that had her bible in it with notebooks and bible study books and pens and highlighters, etc…
    Now that I’m in my thirties with two kids (and also a pastors wife) I do my best to model to my children what my mom taught me! I have my own prayer basket now and just made one for my kids as well. The love it!
    I hope one day my kids will talk about, remember and mimic what they have seen me do. :)

    • Barb Spencer

      Oh, Amber, I’m so thankful there are others who were blessed with moms who modeled faithfulness! I know God will bless you and your family as you walk in obedience. Many, many blessings, Barb

  • http://www.TheNourishingHome.com/ Kelly@TheNourishingHome

    So true, Barb! Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and reminding us to model Christ to our children by showing how much we LOVE HIM by giving Him the first fruits of our time and devotion! Blessings, Kelly

    • Barb Spencer

      Thank you, Kelly. I love how you expressed this time as “giving Him the first fruits of our time and devotion”. We often that as just an Old Testament term, but it accurately describes what we should always be offering Him. Blessings to you and your family as well, Barb