Parenting Like God

October 2, 2012 By

In Church the other day my Pastor said something that struck a chord in my heart.

He was sharing the story of Adam and Eve, explaining how God commanded them not to eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.  God did not say “DON’T” because He wanted to control Adam and Eve, He said “DON’T” because He loved them and desired to protect them.  The Pastor continued by adding that after Adam and Eve sinned against God by eating the fruit of that particular tree, He pushed them out of the Garden of Eden.

“And the Lord God said, “The man has now become like one of us, knowing good and evil. He must not be allowed to reach out his hand and take also from the tree of life and eat, and live forever.” So the Lord God banished him from the Garden of Eden to work the ground from which he had been taken. After he drove the man out, he placed on the east side of the Garden of Eden cherubim and a flaming sword flashing back and forth to guard the way to the tree of life.” – Genesis 3:22-24

God did not drive Adam and his wife out of the Garden of Eden because He was annoyed or lashed out at Adam and Eve in anger, He banished them from the Garden out of love, to protect them from living in their sin forever.

There was consequences to the sin they committed, but God never stopped loving them.

As I heard this, my hand rested gently on the top of my belly, realizing that I need to parent like God does, with love.  Although my child is not born yet, I know that my husband and I have a huge responsibility before us to parent as God has called us to. I quickly wrote a note in my phone to remind me of what I had learned.  Then I leaned over to show my husband and share with him my desire to parent like God.

What does parenting like God look like?

To be honest, I am still in the process of learning this myself.  Yet I know that with this one example I only want to say “DON’T” to my child with the intent of love and protection.  All too often selfishness can weave its way into parenting and I want to be cautious not to do this.  I am praying that I have the self-control to not say “DON’T” just because I want to control a situation, because my child might be annoying me, or even out of anger.

I hope that I am astute as a parent to enable my child’s learning, engage in his development, discipline when needed, and love at all times… just like God does with His children.

Do you desire to parent like God?

What are some other characteristics of God as a Father that are a great example for us as parents?

What are ways we can redirect children without yelling “DON’T”?

- Jennifer Smith  www.unveiledwife.com

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Jennifer married her best friend Aaron in January of 2007. They jumped straight into missions living in three different states and three different countries during their first two years of marriage. Her passion for missions, writing, and marriage led her to create Unveiled Wife, where she blogs about being a wife with every intention to inspire other wives to develop God-centered marriages. Her and her husband are expecting their first child later this year. You can find Jennifer on Twitter and join the Unveiled Wife Community on Facebook.

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  • http://www.facebook.com/vblair90 Victoria Blair

    Though the girls I’m taking care of are not my daughters, this was still something I needed to hear. I say “Don’t” and “No” far too many times during my day. I think tomorrow I’m going to tally how many times it comes out of my mouth. Hopefully keeping track along with remembering the insight you shared will remind me to redirect instead of saying NO. Thank you for sharing.

  • tracy j

    With God all thing are possible. Reach out for help when you need it. This was the hardest thing I faced going through my own post postpartum depression. My mind set was that I can only give to others and felt unworthy to receive help…never accepting my own weakness kept me from Gods love. God whispered to me to let others in. I received God’s love though other hands. He lifted me up and gave me people wanting to help. I allowed them to give and we all grew in Gods love. We are not perfect. Call on God, for every moment you do not feel cut out for this , he is there Cheering you on.