Taking My Thoughts Captive {and a printable of God’s promises}

A couple of weeks ago I wrote about trusting in God and I spoke of God’s promises.  Today I wanted to tell you about another area I am struggling with (because maybe you have too?)…

Have you heard the term “stinkin’ thinkin’”? It almost always makes me laugh a little inside. Even when I am experiencing stinkin’ thinkin’, which, if I’m honest, is much more often than I want.

“…and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ…”  2 Corinthians 10:5

Do you struggle to control your thoughts and take them captive like I do? Maybe it’s a specific area of your thoughts: fear, worry, envy, or coveting another woman’s things.

Or maybe it’s just plain old unpleasant, unkind, unhelpful thoughts. Thoughts like:

 ”I can’t believe she’s helping with worship again, her outfits are always unflattering and she can’t sing very well.”

“I know he wants to play football this year, but what if he gets hurt.  I read about another boy who played football.  He got a concussion and ended up dying.  I just couldn’t handle that.  He’ll have to find another sport.”

“She always has something new.  New curtains.  A new sweater.  New remodel.  I never have anything new.  And her taste is so good.  When I do buy new stuff, it’s never that cute.”

“The day never goes as planned.  I never get anything done.  I can’t even get the laundry folded.  Why do I even try?”

“She is sooo unkind. I am so hurt that she said that to me. She is always being mean to me AND, so are the other ladies in that group. AND my kids have been so tough today, they are simply not listening. AND the house is a complete disaster because I haven’t had a second to clean. AND I’m late because the car is almost out of gas. AND my husband just called to say he’s going to be late.  AND…”

(That last example is classic. Did you ever notice that once you get on a roll it’s hard to change the course of that stinkin’ thinkin’? Things just keep getting worse and worse. I can go on a downward spiral that seemingly has no end.)

Sometimes I feel justified. I really have been hurt by someone dear. I really am overwhelmed and feeling like I can’t possibly get everything done that needs to be done. My heart really is broken by a tragedy or someone else’s actions. I am sorrowful, anxious, and not really able to do anything for myself. Have you been there, friend?

God knows. He is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and in His wisdom, He makes it easy for me to change my thoughts. He knows that it is hard and that I can, at times, barely pick up my Bible. I just need to spend a little time when I catch myself in those ungodly thoughts.

Easy Ways to get some Healthy Thinking

1. Worship Music

I haven’t always had a vast supply of worship music at my fingertips, but I recently found Groove Shark. It’s free!  I can make my own playlists from a huge music library and play them over and over on the computer.  Of course, you can always buy CDs or download the music from iTunes too!

Some of my current worship faves via YouTube:

Coffey Anderson:  All Ye and Free (guaranteed pick-me-ups!)

Kristian Stanfill: Always

Be Thou My Vision sung by Alison Krauss

2. God’s promises {printable}.

If you are currently in the throes of stinkin’ thinkin’, here’s another easy way out. When we are trapped in stinkin’ thinkin’, we’re focusing on less than edifying things. I can focus on God’s promises and know that although I may be hurting or angry, God has it all under His wings. He promises so many things to me, that as I focus on them I can rest in His protection and plan.

I’ve made it easy by listing some of my favorite promises here in this printable. Just print it out and keep it with you all day. When your thoughts stray from Him, pull out the promises.

Or, you can spend some of your prayer time writing these promises out on note cards, I have done this and keep the cards with me as I move around the house. They would be very easy to keep in a desk at work.

3.  Listen to straight Scriptures

If you have a smartphone or iPad you can download an app that will read the Bible aloud to you.  This can be a great way to fall asleep with our heads filled with God’s words.

You Version for Android

You Version for iPhone

You can also listen to it on your computer through Bible Gateway (one of my favorite sites!)

Our trials are real and our hearts can be wounded and hurting.  I know that it is hard work to follow God’s guidance and keep our thoughts pure.  But I also know that with Him all things are possible.

With man this is impossible, but with God allthings are possible.  Matthew 19:26

some of God's promises

 

 

 

 

What are some ways you have found to “take your thoughts captive” and get rid of stinkin’ thinkin’?

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About Christy

Christy is the mother of four boys and one girl. She has been known to homeschool, change diapers and potty train simultaneously. She's been married for 8 years to Charlie, a surfer and entrepreneur and lives on the Central Coast of California. Christy's passion is to embrace motherhood as the calling God gave her. In the midst of the hard work mothering requires, she strives for new ways to have a fun outlook on being a mother. She shares her ideas and encouragement at One Fun Mom.

  • Emily

    Thank you for talking about something I struggle with but don’t like to admit! Memorising a passage is also helpful for me as I turn my thoughts to that when they start obsessing about something untrue or unhelpful!!

    • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

      Sure thing, Emily. (I don’t like to admit it either!) Yes, memorizing is a great way, too!

  • Jennifer

    Once again, a timely word from you, Christy! God has really been working on/in me about my thoughts and mental focus, where I camp out for the day. I’ve just started filling out a spiral of notecards with Scriptures to keep in my purse for easy access in “mental emergencies.” :) thank you so much for your openness, honesty, and encouragement!

    • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

      I just recently filled out my notecards! It really is a shame we aren’t closer!

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  • Molly Sloan

    This is great! I’m a part of a mom’s group at our church and one week we just took an entire 2 hours to just write scripture on index cards. Most moms did verses relating to honesty and obedience to use with their older children, but since I have a baby still I mostly wrote cards for me on patience, being loving, joy. Where did you get the index card holder? I have mine all over my desk right now!

    • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

      What a good idea for your mom’s group! My mom gave me the card holder, but I find little boxes that are index card holders at Walmart and Target consistently. They hold a lot of cards and fit in the drawer of my nightstand. Sometimes I decorate them with stickers!

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  • http://profiles.google.com/cassandra.dorman Cassandra D

    Wow…. fantastic post, thank you! This is so true of me many days – on this journey to actually THINK about what I’m THINKING… and it is a constant process of refining, isn’t it? Love the song links and print out, thank you. :) Love the rap that Coffey did in the middle of “All Ye” … very cool. Cassandra @ The Unplugged Family

    • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

      Cassandra, it is definitely a constant process! I love the rap Coffey did, and I love his music. He seems very genuine and genuinely in love with God.

  • http://www.thechuppies.blogspot.com/ Kara @ The Chuppies

    LOVE LOVE LOVE the printable (and the post)…thank you Christy!

  • Kelly @ The Nourishing Home

    LOVE this, Christy! Am posting it to my FB wall in hopes many will also benefit! You are such a BLESSING! :) Love, Kelly

    • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

      Thanks Kelly!

  • http://www.joyfilleddays.wordpress.com Sarah Beals

    Christy, if you visited my house, you would know exactly what I was struggling with by all of the verses on the subject posted around the house. Loved this post and your sweet printable verses. I have also struggled with taking thoughts captive, and have had to visualize myself “bookending” my thoughts to see if they are in line with scripture. Are they true and real? Helpful and kind? No? Then they must go. :) Thank you!!

    • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

      I need to do that too, Sarah, make a little checklist against Philippians 4:8!

  • Jamie Joseph

    Oh, how timely! I have to fight my “stinkin’ thinkin’” everyday! Thanks for all of the good tips!

  • http://the-north-forty.com/ TyKes Mom

    Great tips! I use worship music so often to grab hold of my negative thoughts and throw them away. My favorite thing to do when I am feeling negative or down is to crank up my favorite worship CD and dance all over the house with my kids!

  • bremommy3

    Hi Christy,
    (It was good to meet you at church the other week!) I loved the article. The worship music is a wonderful suggestion. It really helps me focus on trust, and it has the bonus of being a great influence on the kids too. My big stinkin’ thinkin’ time is usually late at night, especially if my husband is not home. I start worrying about all the what-ifs. Right now my Magnificot is a wonderful source of peace, and reading the scriptures right before bed usually puts me to sleep too. :)

    • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

      Hi there! It was good to meet you! Reading Scriptures before bed is great – it also fills our heads with God before we sleep!

  • Sharon

    Thank you so much for sharing the link to Coffey’s songs. I had never heard of him, but spent a lot of time listening to his songs on YouTube yesterday. His music (and his attitude) are definitely uplifting.

    • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

      Yes Sharon! I love that a good friend showed me his “All Ye” video when I was in some tough trials. Since then I go to his YouTube page once in a while for pick-me-ups.

  • http://becominggodsgift.blogspot.com/ tascha.piatt

    thank you for these reminders.
    We love to listen to children’s Bible songs, Patch the Pirate stories and a myriad of worship music.
    that stinkin’thinkin’ creeps up faster on days I’m tired, so I try to be more intentional in my morning devotion time!
    lovely printable too. remembering His promises is a guaranteed “pick-me-up” for me!

    • http://www.onefunmom.com Christy

      I haven’t heard of Patch the Pirate. Sounds like something my kids would L-O-V-E!

  • Jen Ferguson

    This is timely. I think especially on Valentine’s Day when many people feel alone or disappointed. So glad you linked up this post with SDG.

  • Kate S.

    I noticed that I get to stinkin’ thinkin’ when I don’t start my day off in the Lord. Even if it is just a quick prayer as my feet hit the floor running, I need to begin each day in an attitude of worship, with God in control.

  • Heather :) :) :)

    I’m going to check out that “God’s Promises” link :) :) Love and hugs from the ocean shores of California. Love and hugs from the ocean shores of California, Heather :)

  • Kate @ Teaching What Is Good

    GREAT idea!! Thanks for the printable…printing it now!

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